Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient: A Guide to Communication Compassion and Courage
Überblick:Pressestimmen This book is a must read for persons whose family member has cancer as the author walks them through the experience from the time of diagnosis to bereavement complete with many suggestions and illustrations that are truthful and useful. This book will help readers uncover the scary and complex process of the unknown enabling them to fully embrace the possibility of living through the full course of the cancer journey wisely and compassionately.--Youngmee Kim Phd University of MiamiDr. Goldberg writes lucidly and compassionately about his personal life and his patients' lives with cancer. He advocates an empowering attitude of adapting to cancer with vigorous treatment including alternative therapies rather than fearfully fighting a battle with anxiety and guilt that can result from its ups and downs. Everyone living with cancer will benefit from his ideas and advice.--Jack C. Westman M.D M.S. author of The Cancer Solution: Taking Charge of Our Life with Cancer; Professor Emeritus University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public HealthThis book offers simple but profound advice for caring for a loved one with cancer. It is a guide to the compassionate response we seek but are often at a loss to provide. It is rich with the wisdom needed to be present at life's most difficult time.--Betty Ferrell PhD MA FAAN FPCN CHPN Director Division of Nursing Research and Education City of HopeGoldberg dedicates his book to his granddaughter saying that he hopes her generation 'will find [it] irrelevant and ask 'What was cancer Grandpa?'' Until then family members and friends of people diagnosed with the disease can use any of his 270 suggestions and principles for helpful behaviors that go beyond just saying 'I'm so sorry.'.... [Many] are good reminders such as supporting a loved one's decision to stop life-extending treatment. Goldberg a professor emeritus of communicative disorders at San Francisco State and a prolific author draws heavily and wisely on his experience as a former hospice volunteer. For example he notes that people often mistakenly think the need to communicate diminishes as people speak less as they approach death. Actually the reverse is true he says. 'Silence in the dying is less a sign of not wishing to communicate and more a sign of uncertainty fear or regret.' He notes that 'dying is not about you' and advises people to grant forgiveness to loved ones who ask for it. Like his other recommendations this one seems destined to help family members as well as terminal cancer patients feel better.--BooklistWhat do you do if a close friend or family members confides to you 'I have cancer' The news will no doubt knock your world off-kilter -- as it did to your loved one's world but how can you find solid ground and be the rock of support through what's to come? In his book Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient: A Guide to Caring Compassion and Courage Stan Goldberg a recognized expert in the area of cancer support offers 266 suggestions that 'go beyond compassionate intent to helpful behaviors.' ... Goldberg's valuable book reminds us that the best way to show compassion to our loved ones facing cancer is to show up to speak from the heart and to refrain from passing judgment. Essentially it's what each of us would want from our loved ones if the tables were turned.--Blogcritics'Call me if you need anything.' When your friend shared her diagnosis that was all you could think to say but of course she'll never call because she has cancer and she needs more than six words. What to do? Read Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient by Stan Goldberg and learn what really helps.... While it's true that libraries and bookstores are filled with volumes on cancer what sets this one apart is that author Stan Goldberg not only works with end-stage cancer patients but he was a cancer patient himself. That unique both-sides POV is what makes this book most helpful - that and the fact that Goldberg leaves room for his readers to adjust their caregiving angles. You may note that his ideas are written as 'suggestions ' allowing for different situations and indeed different diseases. It's nice too that small chapters are listed individually in the contents which makes browsing easier. Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient is one of those books you hope you'll never need but would be glad to have when you do. Finding it may be proactive. Owning it is a good call.--Naples Daily NewsWe often hear about people who are dealing with family members or dear friends who are undergoing cancer treatment. Not only does cancer affect the patient but it affects everyone that surrounds the patient- both family and friends. It's a hard concept to deal with. The diagnosis rocks the patient's world and those surrounding the patient. The patient doesn't quite know what to do -- other than go through treatment- but family and friends often are unaware of or can't figure out the best ways to assist that person. Talk about a situation where a guide or book would be so helpful for the patient to read as well as anyone/everyone surrounding that patient. Finally someone has written that book! Stan Goldberg PHD has an incredible resume/CV to his name that makes him the perfect author for his book: Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient: A Guide to Communication Compassion and Courage.--LA-Story.comIt's almost inevitable that eventually you will hear 'I have cancer' from the lips of someone special in your life. Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient can help you provide a gracious generous reply.--Energy TimesWhile it's true that libraries and bookstores are filled with volumes on cancer what sets this one apart is that author Stan Goldberg not only works with end-stage cancer patients but he was a cancer patient himself. That unique both-sides POV is what makes this book most helpful - that and the fact that Goldberg leaves room for his readers to adjust their caregiving angles. You may note that his ideas are written as 'suggestions ' allowing for different situations and indeed different diseases. It's nice too that small chapters are listed individually in the contents which makes browsing easier. Loving Supporting and Caring for the Cancer Patient is one of those books you hope you'll never need but you'll glad to have when you do. Finding it may be proactive. Owning it is a good call.--The Clermont Sun[Goldberg's] ability to describe difficult situations with accuracy and to provide appropriate suggestions on how to deal with sensitive topics such as end-of-life decisions will make this book invaluable to many readers.--Lancet Über den Autor und weitere Mitwirkende Stan Goldberg PhD is Professor Emeritus of Communicative Disorders at San Francisco State University. He is the author of more than two-hundred articles and seven internationally award-winning books including Lessons for the Living: Stories of Forgiveness Gratitude and Courage at the End of Life which received six national and international awards and was translated into Chinese Indonesian and Portuguese. He has lectured in Canada Taiwan Costa Rica and throughout the United States. He is a prolific award-winning writer editorial consultant and recognized expert in the area of cancer support end-of-life issues caregiving chronic illnesses aging and change. Goldberg was a bedside volunteer at the internationally renowned Zen Hospice Project in San Francisco for two years until its Guest House closed. He held similar responsibilities for the next six years with Hospice By The Bay George Mark Children’s House and Pathways Home Health and Hospice. With more than 300 publications presentations workshops and interviews he garnered 22 national and international awards for his writing. His website stangoldbergwriter.com contains hundreds of publically available articles on cancer caregiving aging and chronic illnesses.